Virginity and Masturbation
Do you think you know many much-hidden facts about virginity, masturbation, its mistakes, dangers, benefits, and effects? Well, you would realize you knew 1/10 about all of it. Let’s get started…
Surprisingly, from researches I made, I got to know of questions on masturbation, most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins.
In this lovely article, you will learn a lot about virginity and masturbation, why many people (both boys and girls) masturbate, the possible effects and consequences of masturbating, the dangers of masturbation, and the need for self-control.
Guys also masturbate.
There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.
The sexual urge for virgins is very strong.
What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery, and the hear-says about sex.
Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm.
Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage, or caress their penis.
I decided to give an explicit explanation because of the misunderstanding of what masturbation is.
Have You Experienced These?
Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, bananas, small bottles, sticks, dildos, or whatever represents a penis and do solo s*x (having s*x by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for s*x.
It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20’s it will be stronger and intense!
You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady!
You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off.
You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something.
You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin. Continue Reading
So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have s*x?
I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate!
They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Here is an explanation:
Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind.
It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having.
You imagine having sex with them while masturbating.
That is MENTAL FORNICATION for ladies while inserting all manner of objects, it is risky.
The Dangers Of Masturbation
You may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb.
It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with a man except objects during your solo sex.
You kill your ability to enjoy sex in the future.
Millions of women don’t enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism, and feminism.
If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband.
If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s penis.
You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger, and completely unrealistic.
Women who complain their husband’s penis are too small didn’t marry as virgins.
They must have been promiscuous as singles.
You will not have a good sex life as a man.
You will experience premature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage.
You need self-control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure.
A woman enjoys s*x when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating.
Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated.
She may close up, become frigid and stop having s*x. Altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she is having an affair, or both of you having an affair.
It is worthy to note that masturbation is really a hard nut to crack; many people (especially teenagers) masturbate frequently. Most people masturbate because they just want to ease of some orgasm while others masturbate because they have no option. Above all, some people masturbate because they want to build their muscles; Are you Surprise! Yes, Masturbating can build muscles, but there are some defects.
The Need For Self Control
Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum.
You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time, and have an excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too.
That is why total virginity pays! If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have a serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation.
A situation where you get an erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm.
What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife.
It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate.
How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment.
Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated, and hating sex altogether.
Consequences of Masturbation
You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate.
Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed and confident.
Its avoidance enhances normal sexual intercourse and pleasures that come with sex in marriage.
You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as spiritual spouse).
You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless, and powerless after each act.
You start getting unsatisfied and want the real thing.
You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.
You get a warped view of the opposite sex.
You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in a skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous You get damaged, hurt and broken. You are at risk of hellfire!
These and more are the consequences of masturbation.
The damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge?
How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures, and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers.
Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd, and obscene things.
Stop all sexy banter with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful, and helpful.
Get busy with your life, education, and career, there is more to life than sex.
Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great.
My friend had a strong sex drive in the institution.
He simply channeled them into his education making him the best student in the department from the second year.
He was very excited and energetic.
He burnt the energy on his studies and he was very committed to bible fellowship study
If you don’t burn that energy, you will have sex.
Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119.
When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
Make friends with godly people.
Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
Get busy in kingdom service.
Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again.
He will surely help you out.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive, and sinful.
Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it.
Jesus can help you. Call on Him and He will never abandon or cast you away.
God bless you.