Reasons why men change in a relationship

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Change in relationship occurs everyday and this could be positive or negative change. Change in relationship can emerge through many factors. But, why do men change in a relationship as well as Women?

It is a fact that in every relationship or marriage, change can occur to both genders, but it occurs mainly on the part of the men. Call to mind, that when I say ‘change in men‘ here, I mean when a man changes from loving and caring for his girlfriend or wife..

Do you Encounter These?

Wondering about your man changing right away for no substantial reason? Thinking about what happened to the man you fell in love with? Does his change in nature bother you a lot? Are you trying to find out the reasons behind the change? Well, this article will suffice all your questions.

Men at times become prey to change and women find it difficult to understand the reasons for this change. They try to figure out if it is due to their surroundings or their friends or simply because of the fact that they wish to change without any reason.

There are many things that could make a man to change suddenly and I shall be letting them out in this article.

Men have the tendency to change suddenly. Do you know why?   Relax, I will tell you.

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Men are always seen as the head in every relationship or marriage. This is because they (men) do the toughest work in every relationship or marriage, though not all the times, but they are seen as being at the top. Guess what, this particular reason gives some men the effrontery to do otherwise most times…

Lets be practical, consider a man who labors and gets a lady engaged and later pay her bride price and marry her, not to talk of the money he will spend in organizing the wedding ceremony. In some countries and tribes, it seems to be the fact that the man is buying the lady in question from her parents..

Again, in a relationship, the man is assumed to be taking care of his girlfriend by providing almost everything she needs. Men, in the course of trying to play his role will buy many things and foot the bills of the lady. So tell me, why won’t they have the upper hand change easily when they are not having interest again? Be guided that this should not be a reason for men to cheat.

I will go on and tell you why men change suddenly in a relationship or marriage. I will be practical and con-temporal;

1. Men Change in Relationship  When they are not Satisfied Again:

Hey! when I said Satisfaction, I do not mean ‘Sex’, though it could be among. But, think of this, when a man is not seeing or observing the qualities that makes him to be attracted to a girl at the first sight, what do you think will happen? Now, not being satisfied could be that he no longer sees the beauty in you, it could also be that you are no longer nice to him.

Talking about beauty, it is true that the older one gets, the more the beauty fades, but most girls stop appearing beautifully after getting what they want, either marriage or boyfriend unless occasionally.

The advertisement of your beauty should start fully after being in a relationship or married. When you do this, he will love you more and more and also take care of you. There will no reason for him to change.

One thing you must know, a man who is mentally alright can never change without observing something.

What to do! 

Think about what attracted you to him, check yourself if you still do those things? Do you still dress gorgeously as you use to? If you still cook sumptuous meals just as you did at the beginning? Are you still talking like an angel or have you become a lion suddenly? It could be your smile that attracted him, then always give him that beautiful smiles. If he was attracted because of your natural intelligence, then keep on solving his problems through your natural intelligence.

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It could be that he was attracted because of how you walk, then why not do the same? If possible start cat-walking for him.  If he was attracted because of how intelligent you are and how you always have solutions and good advises to difficult issues and conditions, then refresh your mind and intellect an do more concerning that.

Smell good for him if you feel that is what attracted you to him. Study your man and know what he likes and try to make him happy by doing all that.. In returns, he will not change from caring and loving you.

2. Maturity & Responsibility

As time goes on, everybody grows. And the more a man grows, the more he becomes matured and becomes more responsible. The more he becomes matured, the more he changes. Psychology shows that man changes the more he gets matured because he will be loaded with many responsibilities the more. When man becomes more responsible, he seems to change.

This normally happens in marriage. The responsibility of a man will make him to deviate from what he has been doing as a youth.. Think of when a man is 26 years, he drinks, goes for outings because he has lesser responsibility.. In order to put himself to a level to meet up with his responsibilities when he becomes 35, he could change.

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What to do!

Study your man and know the things that border him. Try to make him happy and remind him that you are always there to help him. Give him good advises and pray for him as well. Know his responsibilities, if you can, help him in some of them… Surprise him often.. If he enjoys massaging, try your best and massage him, it eases of some stress..

3. Bad Friends:

Following bad friends is one of the highest things that can make a man to change from caring and loving you whether in a relationship or in a marriage.

When a man starts hanging out with bad gang, he learns bad things he doesn’t know immediately, either smoking, drinking or womanizing. It is said that ‘evil communication corrupts good morals’, and also ‘show me your friends and I will tell you who you are’.. 

In other words, men can be influenced with the thoughts, actions and behaviours of their follow men.

What to do!

Be very observant about the friends your husband or boyfriend keeps. Make sure you remind him of the need to keep away from bad gangs… Do you know that when you treat your husband or boyfriend very well, he becomes your baby? He will start acting like a kid…  Guide your man and be like a mother, sister, best friend and lover to him. Then, respect your man.

4. Money:

Surprised? Yes, money can easily make a man to change. It could take the both sides; when a man start making much money and when he start becoming poor.. Unfortunately, most men go for ladies that are of low or middle class just because they (the men) don’t have enough money. And when they start making money, they tempt to go for their dream girl. When this happens, the man changes automatically and start paying less attention to the you.

What to do!

You found out he is changing because he is now making much money? Don’t frustrate him by wasting the money; using the money extravagantly or planning to get him robbed; it will not solve the problem, rather It will worsen it.

Make him to understand why there is need to always prepare for the misfortunes of tomorrow; Encourage him to save money. If possible, extort money from him and save for both of you to use in future.

If you are newly married and maybe have gotten little kids, make him understand that those kids are growing everyday, and the more they grow, the more their needs grow, and without money their needs won’t be meet up with.

I remember one of the of the policies of my Mum when I was little. My Dad started making  whole lots of money suddenly and the amount in his account started to influence him.

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My mum just brought my brothers and I out from the a particular basic school we enrolled and put us in an expensive school where the fees are high. What happens! Much money will be flowing in and out. Those monies were not wasted, and everything balanced again.

Just do necessary things with the money, change the curtains and the kitchen utensils. Encourage him to invest more with his money. Tell him to build shopping mall if the money can do it.

Help the poor and the needy also. And most importantly, try as much as possible to give him advises and encouragements always.

If he is your boyfriend, try to encourage him to channel the money to his Careers. If he is a musician, encourage him to buy new musical instruments, tell him to start-up a personal studio. Is he a welder or an engineer? Try to encourage him to work towards having his own company. If he is a young lecturer, encourage him to build a basic school for pupils.

What about Change Influenced by Poverty?

On the other hand, if you observe that your boyfriend or your husband is changing because he is getting poor, try as much as possible to encourage him and demand less from him. Supply him with motivational and inspirational ingredients to spice up his feelings. If you have or earn more, then it is time to rescue him.

One more thing, bear it in mind that when a man is suffering in order to make it in life, he monitors how much help you are rendering to him, how attached you are to him even in his poor nature. So as a girl, if you continue to help him as he suffers, he will never forget you or change from loving you when he makes enough money.

Nevertheless, there are other factors that can lead to Change in a Relationship

Such factors as Fatherhood (If he is married), Emotions, loneliness and experience. 

Finally, study your husband or boyfriend, know the things he likes doing and do it with him even when you don’t know how to do it. If he likes music, plays guitar, try to be play and sing with him..

Do not surf the internet always when he is around you. If he likes football and playing games, try to compete with him and at the end you will see how happy he will be. If he likes dancing, show him that you can dance more than Michael Jackson.

I will be publishing another article which will center more on ‘What to do to make him love you more’. 
Meanwhile, I hope this article is helpful.

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  6. I’m having little issues with my man, guess what! I caught him cheating with another girl and I confronted him openly. Though I used some abusive words on him because of anger, but he has refused to give me attention for the past six days now. What do I do at this moment?

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      You should also remember not to act vehemently when you are too angry.

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      You can check out these 10 BEAUTIFUL WAYS TO PREVENT CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP, they will help you out in a bit.


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