Are you a University prospective student, undergraduate, graduate, or post-graduate? This lovely discourse is for you. There is a trending practice that has turned into a tradition among University students who live in the different hostels around the school environment. This is the practice of not just engaging in a relationship, but becoming married couples in the school hostels while single at home.
To understand this better, 99% of the off-campus hostels are mixed, they can contain both male and female students, who are able to stay next to another’s door. In fact, both genders can practically occupy a room, and when they do, they practically do everything together in common.
This practice is probably not a bad thing as many people would defend, because the students are mostly adults and they can do whatever they want to do and bear the implications and consequences. After all, every moral agent has the ability to make choices.
On the other hand, a lot of students see themselves into this #married-in-school practice without having any prior intention to do that. In fact, they suddenly see themselves doing the whole stuff without having a second thought because it is pleasurable at the moment, especially for newly admitted students.
These types of students should not be blamed because most of them lack the basic orientation and therefore have no idea about the things they are going to see or meet in the University, how to deal with them and how to make a positive decision and not the negative.
Again, most newly admitted students have longed desired to leave their father’s house, to stay along with peer groups, and also mingle with their contemporaries. And so, they crave to enjoy whatever pleasure they encounter giving that it satisfies them in one way or the other.
Remember, that this sect of students are young adults and they are of the age range where they have strong desires for material things and also for some romantic kinds of stuff as you probably know.
This #married-in-school but #single-at-home is rampant among most University undergraduates who live with each other in the school hostels/lodges.
The girls fully practice the functions of a wife, and the men practice the functions and duties of a husband in all ramifications. You will be evidential to this if you stay or visit the student’s hostels.
You will probably be disappointed to discover that it is now a custom for a girl to live with her male coursemate. It is not a tradition for some girls to cook, tidy the room, feed the man, and also feed him in the other way round.
In most cases, the male partners would have frequent sexual kinds of stuff with their school wives at any time they desire, damaging the girl’s future and creating a miserable life for the lady and her main future husband.
In several cases, the male partners impregnate the female ones and lure/force them to go and abort the baby simply because they are not ready to settle down, but they are settling down in school.
During this practice, most ladies lose their womb to uncountable abortion trials by different quack doctors. Yes! They go to quack doctors or take unprescribed drugs because they don’t have a huge amount of money to do it with the professional specialty doctors in good hospitals.
You have not even seen anything yet. Of course, you know that most times both partners are there for pleasure, and so most of them do not have a true or genuine love for each other especially the male ones. And so, they can break-up any time and continue the race with another student, from the hostel, or from another hostel. When this happens, the newly formed school couple will continue from where they stopped with the former partners, and continue to destroy their future and career.
The most important thing to understand is that this practice comes with a heavy distraction from school activities. In fact, 90% of the students who are involved are always poor in their academics because they have given their full attention, commitment, and dedication to pleasurable things rather than serious studies which is the major aim of going to the university.
Important Message to the Female Students
Dear University Babe,
Whether you are newly admitted or not, please pay attention as you go through these lines. The University studies are just a period of few years, mostly from 4 – 6 years for undergraduate courses. If you allow these small boys who wander about to run some stuff with ladies, to get into you, then you may stand to regret a lot of things in a few years to come.
Most of you the girls seem to get into the university with so much excitement, such that they swiftly condition themselves to maintain the status quo established by their seniors in the school.
When they do this, they probably change their wardrobes, get a new set of make-up kits just to look ‘Campussy’ and gorgeous for the guys, change their intonations, and even start sleeping around with guys.
But, they forget in a hurry that they are in the University to study and not to marry, to make handle the pen and not to handle and not the pen+is, to obtain a degree and not a disease, to participate in the academic activities and not a party in the club activities, to become the head in debates, quizzes, and not to receive heads from guys.
In most cases, a lot of pretty ladies cook for a boy they are even more intelligent than, tidy the of a guy all in the name of hostel wife, and a lot more disgusting activities. Why would you open your legs to a man who cannot even stand before your father? A man who will be mad at you if you mistakenly get pregnant? A man who has forgotten the reason why he was sent to the University?
Remember that when you get into this, you start entertaining friends who are in your league too, so it becomes an unwilling addiction.
Aunty, before you consider moving into his apartment/room, always remember the reason for coming to the University. Do not forget that dreams and goals of yours to become a great woman in the future. Remember that your beauty will gradually fade but the things you have learned, and skills you have acquired will remain with you.
Keep in mind that any man who is distracting you from securing a great future for yourself does not genuinely love you. Most men out there are there to use you and later look for a better girl to marry.
Remember that when the guys keep you, you become common to them, such that they can easily have enough of you.
Yes! When you give them everything on a platter of gold, why won’t they be tired of having you at a time?
Please, if you have a spare time in school, use the time to acquire some skills such as hair-making, baking, make-over, computer skills, and a lot more.
If you do not learn any skill with the little time you have, then you will not have multiple sources of income, and so, you will be conditioned to go from one man to another to earn a living. And when your beauty fades, there’s nothing that will attract people to you anymore.
Listen! No man would like to marry a woman that does not have anything to offer. So, if you are only good on the bed, even the men who enjoy you will never marry you because you will only be an additional problem.
Important Message for the Male Students
Dear University Guys,
Please, if you know that you cannot establish a great future with that girl, do not mess her up all in the name of student’s life or hostel couples.
There are some girls who would only need your little care and attention, that doesn’t mean you should start injecting them. Of course, they will probably like it because it is pleasurable, but it is not a reason to waste her future, probably lure her into performing series of abortions.